To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Movie · 2018

A sweet, funny Netflix teen rom-com about a shy high schooler whose secret love letters accidentally get mailed to her five crushes. The story has real warmth and a positive family dynamic, but the film is built squarely for a teen audience, with frank talk about sex, virginity, and condoms, as well as mild swearing throughout.

Best suited to teens 13 and up who enjoy lighthearted romantic comedies with a little emotional depth.

Loss & griefBig emotionsLanguageBehavior modeledRomance & innuendoDrinking, drugs & smoking

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Loss & griefearly in the filmMild

The family's ongoing grief over their late mother is introduced and surfaces in quiet moments; handled gently but may prompt questions from younger viewers.

Romance & innuendothe hot tub party sceneModerate

Lara Jean and Peter are seen kissing in a hot tub; peers misread the situation as sexual, sparking a rumor about a sex tape that drives much of the remaining story.

Romance & innuendothe back half of the filmModerate

Multiple conversations among teens about having sex, virginity, and sexual history; nothing explicit is shown on screen.

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