The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Movie · 2012

This deeply felt coming-of-age drama follows a high-school freshman navigating friendship, first love, and repressed childhood trauma. It handles its subjects with real care, but the content — including sexual abuse themes, teen drug and alcohol use, a suicide backstory, and emotional crisis — is firmly aimed at older teens.

Best suited for mature teens around 15 and up, ideally watched with a parent ready to talk afterward.

Behavior modeledScary imageryPeril & tensionViolenceLoss & griefBig emotionsLanguageRomance & innuendoDrinking, drugs & smoking

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Loss & griefearly in the filmModerate

Charlie mentions that his best friend died by suicide before the school year started; this is referenced with sadness but not shown.

Drinking, drugs & smokingearly in the filmModerate

Charlie attends a party where teens drink; he unknowingly eats a marijuana brownie, becomes visibly intoxicated, and later wakes up in a hospital.

Violencemiddle of the filmModerate

A fight breaks out in the school cafeteria after a student is harassed; punching and kicking are shown and a teen is seen with visible bruises and a bloody face after being beaten off-screen by his father.

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